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"I believe that authenticity in all its imperfect glory, will open us to see who we really are, what we are capable of and will most probably change the world, one person at a time”



Ola, Hello

Yo, Greetings, Konnichiwa and Salutations.
Mighty glad to have you here, my name is Amber.

If you have ever stumbled across my content and wondered - ‘ Hmmm does this lady have a program where she teaches everything she knows, all in one spot and it’s really fun’, - then all of your dreams have just been answered.

Welcome to Becoming Unfu*kwithable.

Your online life bible that is more important than wine, yoga and choosing the perfect tinder profile photo.

I detest seeing the personal neglect of each persons unique authenticity.

So, I built an effective guide for down to earth people that teaches how to express yourself authentically while actively cultivating the courage to build a life that creams your twinkie - not anyone else’s.

Becoming Unfu*kwithable is an 8 week self mastery intensive that expands on the seven core teachings in my book, The Unfu-kwithable Life. It provides straight forward ways for forging an empowered mindset and balancing emotions while diving deeper than darth vader did to the dark side, into practical spiritual philosophy.

Whether you are a seasoned personal development enthusiast or you prefer not to venture into 'self help-woo-woo-crap', becoming Unfu-withable, will provoke you to think much more deeply about how you define yourself, happiness and success and ultimately challenge you to access your highest level of fulfillment and potential.

I’ve consumed countless coffees and small puppies came close to being smothered during stressful times in order for me to produce personal development content that doesn’t suck and has reliable, actionable and shockingly useful spiritual wisdom.

it’s also gonna save planet earth.

Each of my programmes are connected with an incredible non-for profit organisation, that’s sole existence resides in contributing to our planet and it’s people.

This one in particular is partnered with #justbenice, and each BU member dresses a homeless person.

So, shall we take a look then?
I’m excited.

Ambz x

About Amber

Amber is an Australian country gal with a big, bold and audacious heart.
Her writing, speaking and coaching is dedicated to helping people find what it is they stand for and through self mastery, enables them to find their back bone again and live an extraordinary life of their very own creation (not someone else’s version of perfect).

Running her own company of retreats, live events and online coaching single handedly since the age of 23, and now reaching over 80,000 people a month across her YouTube channel, Podcast and social media platforms.  

The author of, The Unfu*kwithable Life (coming early 2017), featured on stages in front of more than 20,000 people and worked with over 1000 clients who can attest to her specialty of blunt force trauma to the ego, tools for emotional mastery & healing, and wisdom for spiritual connection.

What is Becoming Unfu*kwithable?

BU is an 8 week, online and live streamed program with 24/7 support. It's delivered in the combination of pre-recorded video’s/audio and live weekly coaching where I guide you through the interactive content and 'mentally-renovative’ exercises. For the sake of human connection, each 8 week cycle ends with an optional hangout, with fellow local BU members (BYO organic wine and chocolate).

Count me in!

The proof is in the pudding

I was familiar with some psychological and spiritual approaches on how to heal after trauma and did some work on it already and thought I was managing it ok. But somehow I felt completely stuck and held back by old patterns. I was still looking for something and didn’t know what it was. I chose Alchemy purely based on intuition.. and my intuition was right. We need real “hands on body work” and connection with others to get to that next step and break through. So Alchemy was the turning point and moment of enlightenment I was after.

I started to realize that the biggest takeaway is to watch other sisters facing (or still avoiding) their true emotions and let them surf… that is inspiring.  In each one I see a bit of myself and the mirroring was the best realization for myself.

- Agnes Kruze – Alchemy Retreat Client

I loved that my sisters were so real. There was no bullshitting that we took a magic pill and everything is completely better after our 4 days together. I wrote notes – but my main takeaway was feeling the depth of our emotions so that we are able to move through them. Thankyou to everyone ❤️

- Zina Sciacca – Alchemy Retreat Client

I knew that there had to be a day that felt like an exorcist and this certainly feels like it!!!

- Debra Harris – Alchemy Retreat Client

I’d been looking for something to do for myself but I wasn’t sure what I needed. Alchemy turned out to be exactly it. From the moment I read Amber’s mission I knew.

A safe supported space to be heard, loved, held and reminded of the power of breath, connection and presence. The collaboration of activities and the wisdom of the facilitators has centered my soul and projected me along a path of self acceptance, self love and to mindfully walk each day with so much gratitude, joy and love. What a remarkable experience – invest in you – do it now – you will not regret it 🙏🏼

- Bec FitzGerald – Alchemy Retreat Client

When I first came across Alchemy it was like, it called me. I registered on the spot without really knowing what it was and I never looked back. Going to Alchemy felt like coming home to myself. It’s a reminder of the wisdom I already hold deep within and have somehow forgotten. Amber and the team manage to create a container that simultaneously pushed me beyond what I thought I was capable of and while also filling me with a profound sense of peace and joy. I would recommend Alchemy to anyone who feels ready to meet themselves and rediscover who they truly are.

- Amber Jade – Alchemy Retreat Client

Alchemy…..hmmmm, you will know in your heart that you are meant to go. You just need to quiet the mind, love yourself that little bit more and dive in. To me it is the best of humanity. To be held, seen, and unconditionally loved for all that you are, for all that you have always been. My wish for my children and my children’s children is Alchemy is gifted to them as part of their initiation to adulthood when they leave high school. Everyone should be reminded of their own wholeness and Alchemy is where you will find it. All my love and gratitude to Amber oxox

- Emma K R-Hynes – Alchemy Retreat Client

I was drawn to the Alchemy Retreat earlier this year and I am now literally sitting in the magic afterwards, reflecting on the absolute magnitude of the impact on my soul journey. It is a transformation, it is heart and soul expansion, it is miraculous. To describe it will not do any justice. It is an experience. And you will never be the same! To the incredible facilitator Amber, your gift to the world is joy to be seen, held and safe. Beanie and Kurt divinely guide all participants to open up and be real. We came together as individuals, we leave as family, connected for life. Thank you, aho.

- Esta Konti – Alchemy Retreat Client

Magic happens at Alchemy Retreat because Amber and her team drive the forces to bring everyone home. A home full of love, healing and compassion. I chose this retreat to see myself through different lenses and feel the beauty of life. Well, the results are undefined. At retreat you find different people with different personalities but at the end of the retreat you can feel your divine soul connected with others. It is an incredible experience of enlightenment of mind, body and soul. You entered a magical land and you walked away by finding yourself and purpose of life. Thank you so much Amber, Bennie and Kurt for creating such a beautiful journey for us.

Highly recommended to everyone out there who is struggling to find themselves or just want to discover more about the journey on the planet earth. 🙏 Aho ❤️❤️

- Ruby Sidhu – Alchemy Retreat Client

What Am I In For Over The 8 Weeks?

Becoming Unfuckwithable, reveals insight into the workings of your thoughts and translates the wisdom of your soul into effective, digestible and actionable steps for those looking to expand their self awareness.

It will empower you to constructively navigate through this, somewhat complex, human experience called life.

In a society that capitalises on our deepest fears, doubts and insecurities, people no longer have the courage to show themselves. Be themselves. Live for themselves. Think for themselves.
Becoming Unfu*kiwthable is the antidote.

It’s very important to me that you feel this is not going to be some run of the mill, thrown together, copycat of self help gurus; tried-to-make-out-I-have-all-the-answers; kind of bullshit. This is my life work to date, wrapped in one.
Below I have simplified the major teachings from each of the 7 Codes, so that you feel well informed about what you will be learning.

While there is nothing really ‘new’ since Lao Tzu, Buddha and that whole crew came along, I do add my flavour and variety in a very particular and precise way, so that this course will continue to play out in your life in an empowering manner, for years to come.