Be Unfu*kwithable

Personal development that works, and doesn't suck.
8 weeks to make you unfuckwithable.

Dig - Discover - Dream - Decide - Do Repeat


Welcome to Be Unfu*kwithable

 24/7 Support + Inspiration
Weekly Live Coaching
Lifetime Access To Content

Hey there, I am thrilled to share Be Unfuckwithable (BU) with you. The online life bible that's more important than yoga, wine or choosing the perfect Tinder profile. 

It's for those who are not willing to settle for anything less than a remarkable life.

Whether you’re finally ready to be someone that you actually like, or wanting to take your already discovered potential to the next level, I'm here to help turn your Pinterest quotes into a life that you can touch and feel.

After successfully mentoring thousands of inspired life enthusiasts around the world to gain mental, emotional and spiritual freedom, my deepest aspiration is for BU to do the same for you.


What’s The Point?

The entire point of this course is to put you in the drivers seat of life. Instead of you constantly turning to every Tom, Dick and Harry for the answer to 'happiness and success'. This is a frustrating and epically disempowering way to live; relying on everyone else for answers that usually end up with only short term relief anyway. Enough is enough. This is personal development that truly works, won't make you dry reach and last's a lifetime.

Results In A Nutshell

It's no bullshit and incredibly comprehensive. Essentially, you can be sure that life is about to become exceptionally more fulfilling as you actually begin to do what you were meant to do in this world; make a massive impact simply being who you really are and do what inspires the hell out of you with your life. You will stop wasting your time and energy being held back by the past. You'll rid yourself of confusion and energy draining sabotage in your current life and finally, know exactly how to overcome any obstacle without drama or fear of rejection and failure.

How Will I Feel? (Nutshell)

You'll be so well equipped to create a remarkable life, full of badassery, inner peace and worthiness that even Wonder Woman and Clark Kent (mmm Clark Kent...) will be intimidated by you. You will be able to create massive mental and emotional shifts that produce lasting change in your life including increased confidence, self-worth, discipline and inner strength, inspiration to pursue your dreams, loving relationships, financial growth, empowered communication, health and wellbeing and more.
What is Be Unfu*kwithable?


adj 1. to be in a state of such self-connection and acceptance that peace, authenticity, joy, and inspiration permeate every aspect of life, and fear cannot stop you.

Be Unfu*kwithable (BU) is a live and online combined coaching self-mastery program that continues to meet you where you are at in all walks of life; complete breakdown, rising success or a balanced state of flow. It takes you from where you are now and accelerates your personal being that has a ripple effect through every area of your life. It's delivered both live (video) and online in pre recorded videos and audio content. 

I wrote a book, 'The Unfuckwithable Life', and I realised you can't just write about how to be unfuckwithable. It must be taught. Nervous systems need to be re-wired. People need more than words, they need a teacher and a guide. They need tools, techniques and ongoing support. So I took the core message from my book and I went deep. Really deep. I expanded on the What, Why, How and What If of an Unfuckwithable Life (for those who question everything like me)

Then I sat my butt in front of a camera and I recorded the lot. On top of that; believing growth and change is an integral part of all our success; I decided I can't just open pandora's box and leave people with videos, "they need proper guidance" I thought. When I stir up what has laid dormant, both potential and pain I wanted to be there to support you. So additional to all the content (which you get lifetime access to - yes lifetime access including all updates) I will coach you every single week in a private BU members forum until well..I guess the internet breaks?? I am committed to your lifelong success. You will not be disappointed in the quality, quantity and affectivity of this course.Join A Community Of Inspired Souls.

Ever wonder what it would be like to work with me one on one?

Well, BU allows you to have access to ask personal questions direct to me every single week. I thrive off teaching. I thrive off helping people through specific challenges and reaching their pull potential. Every single week in the BU members forum, I spend an entire session LIVE (recording posted for future access) where I answer questions that you have asked throughout the week or during the live session itself. What this means, is that as you evolve and grow and work through the modules again and again you have ongoing professional and inspired support specific to your situation.

BU shows you exactly how to master your self talk, practically access empowered emotional states and overcome negative ones. It gives you the exact steps that the master of peak performance use to breakthrough sabotage and self limitations so you can create an incredible, fulfilling, peaceful, inspiring, authentic and empowered life.  

A few of the common (but not limited to) results form working through this content and coaching with me:

  •  becoming exponentially more authentic in your communication and actions in life, giving you a life freedom and confidence
  • a flowing yet inspired and passionate life that you want, not what others think it should be (rather than a roller coaster you sometimes feel you are riding)
  • discovering how to see and prevent self sabotage
  • cultivating a deep inner peace and fulfilment (yeh, that's a thing not just a meme), confidence and power
  • enabling you to break out of any low, or disempowered place when those difficult times inevitably arise in life
Meet Your Mentor, Amber Hawken

Amber is an Australian country gal with a big, bold and audacious heart. Her writing, speaking and coaching is dedicated to helping people find what it is they stand for and through self mastery, enables them to find their back bone again and live an extraordinary life of their very own creation (not someone else’s version of perfect). 

She has been running her own company of retreats, live events and online coaching single-handedly since the age of 23, and now reaches over 80,000 people per month across her YouTube channel, podcast and social media platforms.

She’s the author of The Unfu*kwithable Life (coming early 2017), has been featured on stages in front of more than 20,000 people and worked with over 1,000 clients who can attest to her specialty of blunt force trauma to the ego, tools for emotional mastery and healing, and her wisdom for spiritual connection.

Count me in!

"The best thing about Amber is, you know change is about to happen at a new level. After working with her, I am so empowered. I recognise my gifts and true potential and have completely changed my thinking. My life is so much more fulfilling instead of shallow and uncertain. My mind is my greatest tool and she taught me this so well."

Andrea Thorpe

"Amber has an amazing ability to help you connect you to your inner self and your core existence. She is able to help you identify and break down the barriers that you have created and accepted and provide you the tools to help build and move forward. She does this in a beautifully honest and caring way to encourage you that it is hard but your are amazing. Amber helped me move from a place of unhappiness and aloneness to embracing me. She has helped me control my emotions and thoughts to change my life."

Jess Laird

"Amber has this incredible way of awakening your soul, inspiring you to take control of your life and to own every inch of who you are."

Ellen Travassaros

Here Are The 8 Weeks Laid Out

There are 9 components to the course: 7 Codes plus an intro and debrief sessions. You can go at your own pace and access it all at once, anytime.  

The lessons you’ll learn will stay with you long past that intro period. Life comes and goes in cycles, and self-awareness always helps. 

Below I have simplified the modules, because it’s important to me that you know what you will be learning. 

Remember, a lot of these come with invaluable breakthrough techniques that I've learnt through being a re-patterning therapist, NLP practitioner and have produced most of the successful results of the thousands of people I have worked with


    Component 1: 4 Days
    Mapping Out Your Success

    There is nothing that annoys me more than when I start something and don't finish. So not only is this accessible for life, so you can repeat and go deeper each time, I have included techniques and strategies that prevent the kind 'giving up' sabotage that most people face when trying to improve their lives.

    - Anti-Sabotage Breakthrough Exercise

    - Buddying Up (optional)

    - Meet and Greet - Goals + Scheduling


      Code 1: 7 Days
      Be Fearlessly Authentic

      Strip back all the dishonest layers of who you thought you were, who you think you need to be, what you think you need to do and say and act like and dress like, and how you think that you need to live.

      How to do you do this?  

      Work through shame, anxieties, and self-doubt. Access vulnerability, and, most of all, find an invincible peace within yourself. To be fearlessly authentic is to live congruently with your truest values despite the fear that so naturally resides within our human existence.

      - Get crystal clear on who you really are (seriously)

      - Never care what others think again

      - Understanding why inauthenticity is the toxicity of everyone’s life

      - How to determine what's not 'you' - Embracing vulnerability

      - Release guilt and shame from the past to live freely

      - What you have been told about the ego is all wrong

      - Soul - what the bloody hell is it?

      - How you are NOT your mind, but we definitely need to use it

      - How being human is something you need to accept to finally be happy


        Code 2: 7 Days
        Love & Accept Yourself, Unapologetically

        End the internal battle that leads you to sabotage and shrink away from your potential. Tap into conscious awareness. Let go of the victim mentality. Let go of blame, guilt, resentment, and fear that is holding you back. Nurture the titanium strength of kindness and compassion. No Jedi mind games with your insecurities, stop sabotaging yourself. Phew. And thus…

        - Why you never want to judge others

        - Stop the negative feedback loop in your mind

        - A simple tool to surrender instead of always fighting against life

        - Learn to let go of the need for approval from the world around you

        - Go from "I am not X enough" to feeling fabulously worthy

        - Creating balance and stability instead of a roller coaster life

        - The link between what we don't want and what we attract into our life

        - Why forgiveness and compassion aren't real, but they'll still set you free

        - Healing from a painful past


          Code 3: 7 Days
          Lead With Your Heart (Assisted By Your Head)

          Build your life from creativity and purpose instead of approaching it with suspicion and agonizing doubt. Instead of fear shutting you down, allow it to light you up. Embrace the age old battle between what we value and what our minds say we should value. Find out what it is that you want to do with your life in each moment, and discover how the bloody hell to find the courage to do it. This code is truly the difference between existence and living. Grind, but flow with grace.

          - Realising having a purpose driven life isn't 'woo-woo,' it's highly necessary

          - Discovering what you genuinely value

          - How to face fear, failure and frustration

          - Short term stimulation vs. long term gratification

          - Use the mind; don’t let it use you

          - Learning to never be influenced by the opinion and fear of others

          - Why thinking is useless without feeling - Creating a purpose statement that will make your knees weak and isn't about what you 'do'

          - Why being selfish is necessary for fulfilment

          - Discovering the ultimate failure of motivation

          - How to generate endless inspiration


            Code 4: 7 Days
            Feel It, Free It

            Detox emotionally, man. Get that build-up of suppressed emotions that are creating noxious environments in your body, disrupting your life, and stimulating an undercurrent of emotional turbulence that has become so familiar that heaviness is normal. Learn how to let it go. Learn how to work with emotions, create a healthy relationship with this very normal human part of us, and discover how to listen to them. Dig up what needs to be released. Be able to express your emotions rather than projecting them or being run by them.

            - A proven method for going deeper than you’ve gone into emotions safely and without being weird

            - Innovative techniques to come out of any funk

            - Understanding depression and suffering

            - Ending emotionally driven sabotage habits

            - Learning the true purpose of emotions

            - A strategy for 'feeling', instead of getting caught up and spiralling

            - Instructions for an emotional detox

            - Learning to balance between victim and honouring emotions

            - Being in charge of your emotions

            - Learning to trust and let go of fear


              Code 5: 7 Days
              Get Connected

              Seek connection. And I do not mean your thumb to your phone screen scrolling through Facebook or your hands on a glass of Pinot Grigio. Find a connection to your purpose, connection to your breath, and connection to inspiration, calmness, intuition and life force. Connect to how to be utterly right here right now, living. No planning, no thinking, no over-analysing, just live your life. And when you do think, it will come from a place of love and inspiration not from a place of fear of the past or want for the future. Everything you ever need is in that space.

              - Never feel alone again by understanding loneliness

              - Why we really cannot ‘stop’ (and how to)

              - My unorthodox approach to meditation that works for anyone

              - A strategy for easy and intuitive decision-making

              - Creativity through stopping

              - The key difference between spirituality and reality

              - Accessing creativity every day for joy and happiness

              - The fundamental difference between adrenaline and flow

              - How success comes when you stop 'trying' so hard at life


                Code 6: 7 Days
                Choose Love

                Learn to live in a state of awareness of your mind’s constant fabricated story about how rejection and failure surround every decision that you make. Figure what the heck love is, not the romantic kind but the kind that will make you fall deeply in love with life. Live openly, screw superficial stimulation and short-term fixes. Reveal to yourself your divinity, and revere in the essence that all beings reflect this inherent element of the divine. 

                Strategies for choosing love over fear

                - Realising love is not a romantic term, but a choice

                - When others don’t love themselves and how to handle their discomfort - Love without attachment

                - Learning to choose love

                - Losing what doesn’t serve us by loving ourselves

                - End the battle of big up and downs emotionally and in life

                - Stop wasting time on worry

                - Reverse engineer fear to move through it

                - How to open a closed heart and move forward


                  Code 7: 7 Days
                  Nurture Your Wild Side

                  Inject unfuckwithable into your veins. Embrace the how to attitude and mindset of unfuckwithable. Break through old conditioning; bring forth strength and depth into your every day; make unfuckwithable something tangible with action steps and palpable wisdom that you can weave into life.

                  These seven codes can serve as anchor questions. When you find yourself in a life pickle, you can learn to ask:

                  Am I just being me right now?

                  Am I choosing love?

                  Have I loved and accepted unconditionally?

                  I wrote this book how I would talk to my best friend. I wanted to write something simple, light, and practical that anyone can read and take inspired action, be it changing the way that they think or changing what they are doing.

                  I felt there were so many options for people who are already on the search and feel they’re connected, but what about people who are still figuring this shit out? Because I know I still am, and probably always will be. I need reminding of who I am and how to return to that place all the time.

                  -  How to live life with inspiration, like you mean it

                  - Stop wasting your potential through stories—end them now

                  - Let go of your need to fill yourself up with 'things'

                  - Learning to use pain like a detective instead of avoiding it

                  - Learn to lean on you, not need others to hold you up all the time

                  - Don't let people walk all over you

                  - Learn to create happiness, instead of always feeling like you are chasing it

                  - Why an outstanding life is one little action at a time

                  - Practice walking through discomfort and fear


                    Component 9: 3 Days
                    Debrief, 'what's next', social celebrations

                    - Reflect and debrief—not the boring kind, the fun kind where you feel awesome and realise it's okay that there is always another layer we can peel back next time

                    - Celebrate and re-assess

                    - Social catch up in real life with local BU family

                    "Amber has a unique ability to really understand human fulfillment and what it takes to make necessary changes to live an extraordinary life"

                    Krsitie Ord

                    "When I think of Amber as a mentor there are four words that come to mind. Empower, educate, passion and transform. Her ability to see through your self taught limits, is incredibly impressive and accurate. Her knowledge is above any coach, guide, mentor or “personal development guru” I’ve come across. The greatest lifetime investment I have ever made"

                    Kylie Hobson

                    "Amber has an incredible gift at public speaking & mentorship. She not only at understands human behavior in a fun and engaging way which she passionately and effectively communicates that knowledge, she also gives us the tools to be able to apply this into our lives so we can be our best mentally and physically."

                    Emily Skye

                    What’s Included

                    9 Modules including videos (and audio of the videos for multitasking convenience) and downloadable exercises with step by step instructions 

                    Members only BONUS material (below) + meet up groups, yep real life catch ups with other unfu*kwithable and inspired humans

                    Members only forum access (the juice, the connection, the sharing for all you gooey peeps out there) to the support forum; accountability happens in numbers

                    A weekly live stream coaching and Q + A during the inaugural launch 8-week dates specified below. Amber really get's involved in this and  will be inside the forum posting, commenting, replying and navigating you through your triumphs and challenges. As humans, we thrive on connection and I intend to be a part of your growth every day

                    An 'I'm Unfu*kwithable', singlet/T shirt - I have partnered with Just Be Nice, who for every singlet I purchase (and give to you), a homeless person is clothed

                    24/7 Support and regular inspiration in the support forum

                    Lifetime Access to the Course - no matter how much content I add to it. (Yes, the investment will increase substantially over the next year, so it’s best to jump in now, for sure!)

                    Weekly Live Coaching Sessions (dates and times below for the inaugural launch dates . After that there will be one each week ongoing)

                    Bonus' !!

                    Anti-Sabotage Formula

                    How to not put this in the 'too hard' or 'I’ll do it later' basket and not blow your money, video + work-booklet breakthrough

                    The Unfu*kwithable Life

                    The Unfu*kwithable Life, E-Book (when the book is released early next year, you will get a code to download it for free)

                    Leather Unfu*kwithable Bracelet

                    We’re sending the bracelets after everything is submitted as further incentive. You can’t afford to let this vital information slip into the “too hard” or “I’ll do it later” basket.

                    Lifetime Updates

                    Those who join BU before Jan 2017 will have access to lifetime updates. I will continue to develop the program forever and the investment will rise, but you will never pay an extra cent.

                    How Will I Learn?

                    Rest assured, I cannot stand webinars and online workshops that drag on for 90 minutes. For my sanity and your convenience I broke the content into punchy, digestible videos. Each lesson is between 10-20 minutes long. I wanted to deliver value, but also make it actionable. It’s important that you avoid anxiety, overwhelm and thinking burnout. All videos also come with the audio version for the convenience of multi-tasking whilst learning.  

                    I thought ahead. Knowing we are all tech savvy these days I have made it accessible on multiple platforms. Inside the members’ area you can watch the videos, download the audio and PDF exercises pages and more! 

                    All The Questions You Want To Know

                    How Much Time Will I Need?

                    It varies, but each Code has about 7-10 short videos, that also come in audio format that allow you too learn on the go.

                    Including going through all the video/audio content, attending (or watching the recording later) the live coaching video, taking notes, integrating new habits, doing the exercises and debriefing, I suggest scheduling in 3-4 hours a week if you are going to follow the 8-week coaching guide.

                    The forum is also there, which will be thriving with connection, support and community for you to go to whenever you like or need. This is a—you get out what you put in course—you can watch the videos/listen to the audio or you can go guns blazing on all your exercises and repeat each section multiple times.

                    Some of the lessons can get pretty deep, so going over it is recommended and is also why I give lifetime access. Repetition is the mother of skill and we have layers of limitations that you can continue to move through, break through and transform forever. Like I said; this is a lifetime investment.

                    When Do I Get Content Access & Bonus's

                    Your access to the content will be released a few days prior to January 22nd.

                    Your private member area log in details will be granted via email a few days before the program begins in January and during that 8 week live coaching cycle, you will receive regular email updates and support about coaching calls and bonus content releases. 

                    The live video calls are uploaded weekly into the bonus material section of your member's area.

 Your 'I'm Unfu*kwithable' singlet will arrive the first month of the course depending where in the world you are.

                    Your 'Unfu*kwithable' graduation bracelet will be posted within 7 days of a BU team member checking off all your completed components.

                    Can I go at my own pace or do I need to be on the 8-week cycle?

                    Yep! Going at your own pace is the best part. Sometimes we feel like we don't need any kind of support, but we all know that problems never stop, we just learn to deal with them better. So this course is both a prevention and solution. Life happens. We get it, you can take as long or goes as fast as you like. You can follow the 8-week cycle or not. Whatever works for you.

                    When do my direct debit payments start?

                    All forms are set up to begin 1 working day after submission and will debit the specified amount the same day each week.

                    Can I access the content all at once?

                    Yes, once your payment is processed you will have access to the entire course content with the exception of 2017's first course, which will be released just a few days prior to launch on the 22nd. The weekly live stream videos will be run on the dates scheduled, saved and inserted into the bonus material section of the online content in the members’ area. 

                    What if I am not comfortable asking questions in the forum or live stream coaching?

                    No worries. Email by 9AM the morning before each of the coaching calls and we will do our best to get your questions answered.

                    What if I don’t get a buddy?

                    Not to worry. You can reach out to and we can do extra shout outs. However, buddies are not necessary for results nor are they enforceable, so we won’t be making anyone partner up. Amber is inside the forum to personally answer questions on a regular basis, so you always have her and our team to turn to. 

                    What if I am not ready, when will it run again?

                    We will run the program on an 8-week schedule three times a year. Obviously, it’s best to join before a cycle begins for follow through, results, and accountability. However, you can purchase a membership anytime and run yourself through the videos, audios and exercises and have access to our supportive and thriving community. Unfortunately, if you join outside of the cycle you won’t have the community feel we create in the forum during the set cycle dates.

                    Will I get one on one coaching from Amber?

                    Unless you purchase package two or three with bonus private coaching included you’ll see Amber in the weekly live stream coaching video, but there’s no one-on-one time, though.

                    How do I know it's for me?

                    Whether your dreams are to be an immaterial soul seeker and finder, a billionaire entrepreneur or anything in between, you’ll need to master the art of authenticity if you want to get there, with a lot less friction, stress, sabotage and anxiety.  

                    Are you someone who, without a push, would probably just keep doing the same old thing over and over, and justify it as ‘okay’ when really, you’re settling? 

                    Would you like to practically learn the strategies for making consistent improvement on a mental, emotional, physical, spiritual, financial, vocational (work) and relationship level, through understanding yourself and mastering simple tools to discover your wisdom, and make achievable and permanent change? 

                    Do you have a beating heart? Are you okay with straight shooting advice? 

                    Will you be comfortable with the occasional blunt style of communication and language? 

                    Then yes, it could really be the program for you.  

                    Authenticity is the centre point of all free flowing success. Now authenticity isn’t exactly in our school curriculums, but neither is how to vote properly—look where that mistake is getting the world.  

                    My point is, in a society the capitalises on our insecurities, doubt and fears, being unwavering in your self awareness and strength as a person is of utmost importance. Trouble is, a lot of us don’t realise we have trouble being real with ourselves. 
 I want you to answer this question, very, very honestly. 

 What is life about? My bet it that you said either ‘happiness/living on purpose’ or 'I don’t know’ and it overwhelmed you, and you threw your wine at the computer? 

                    To clarify, this is not for everyone, nothing ever is. It will resonate deeply with you if you are someone who wants tools, insight and wisdom that will not just help them get unstuck, move forward and transform their lives, but will allow them to become a leader that can inspire and veer others in less volatile directions. 

                    To become, Unfuckwithable.

                    Your investment in you, gives back!

                    Heya, Amber here. 

                    For every program I run, a % of the profits go into an organisation doing good for this world. For BU, I have chosen A21 and the #JBNproject. 

                    A21 are an anti-human trafficking organisation that prevents, protects, prosecutes and partners with people to stop human slavery. 

                    Human trafficking fuels the growth of organized crime, undermining health, safety, security, and the basic needs of humanity. It is the fastest growing crime in the world.

                    When you invest in your success through BU, you’re not only helping yourself, but you’re also helping to prevent human trafficking.

                    The #JBNproject is an organisation that for every item purchased through Odin (clothing company), Odin donates a brand new item to disadvantaged, homeless and rough sleeping Australians. One for One. 




                    Be Unfuckwithable Will Revolutionise How You Experience Life On A Day To Day Basis

                    I believe all people deserve to have an exceptional life. Not one that just feels good when sipping back a wine with friends or finally taking two weeks off the job you run yourself into the ground for. No, instead, to have a life that yields memories that you are proud of, that inspires you and that feels incredibly form the moment you wake up to when you go to sleep.

                    What’s more important is that the practical information that you’ll learn is versatile and applicable to the difficult decisions, harsh realities, and sudden setbacks that are reality in this life.

                    You can apply the 7 Codes in your own life or use the information you’ll receive to help others. The tools and techniques in this program won't stop those moments, they'll simply allow you to effortlessly move through them without stress, self doubt, anxiety and worry.

                    If you’re finding that it’s more difficult to find commitment to your authentic values, balanced happiness, fulfillment and enjoyment in your life…

                    If you or someone you know struggles with stress, self doubt and sabotage…

                    And if you can’t remember the last time you’ve done something just for you…

                    Then you need to grab yourself a spot in Be Unfuckwithable to discover how you can take back control of your life.


                    I deserve this, secure a spot!